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傲慢与偏见中的达西为什么广受女性欢迎

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在《傲慢与偏见》中,达西先生一直被视为理想的浪漫男主角,各种改编版本也展现了他性格的不同面向。有人偏爱柯林·费尔斯所演绎的那种冷峻深沉,也有人更欣赏马修·麦克费登在2005年电影中所展现出的热情与脆弱。究竟哪一位“达西先生”才是最出色的,始终是个见仁见智的问题——每位演员都诠释了角色的不同侧面,吸引着不同的观众。
以下是达西先生受欢迎的几个主要原因:

傲慢与偏见中电影版的达西

傲慢与偏见中电影版的达西

深沉冷峻的魅力
BBC版本中柯林·费尔斯的达西,以细腻的表情和内敛的魅力著称,使他成为一个令人着迷的角色。
热情中的脆弱
马修·麦克费登在2005年电影中的演绎,更加突出达西情感上的脆弱与真挚,这种更易接近的人设吸引了不少观众。
“神秘而疏离”的吸引力
部分观众被达西那种沉默寡言、略显疏离但不乏机智的性格所吸引,这种神秘感正是他魅力所在。
睿智与机锋
达西的聪明才智、爱好阅读,以及他与伊丽莎白之间机智的对话,也被视为极具吸引力的特质。
因爱而改变的过程
达西愿意为了伊丽莎白去反省、改变自己,让他多了几分柔情与真实,这是他经久不衰的魅力之一。
“贵族气度”
也有人认为达西身上那种天生的尊贵与克制气质,使他更具吸引力。
总而言之,达西先生的复杂性,以及不同版本改编中多样的诠释方式,使他始终是浪漫主义文学中最受欢迎的男主角之一。

In "Pride and Prejudice," Mr. Darcy is consistently ranked as a desirable romantic lead, with various adaptations showcasing different facets of his character. While some prefer the brooding intensity of Colin Firth's portrayal, others are drawn to Matthew Macfadyen's more passionate and vulnerable depiction. Ultimately, the "best" Mr. Darcy remains subjective, with each actor capturing different aspects of the character that appeal to different viewers.

Here's a breakdown of why Mr. Darcy is so popular:

  • Brooding Intensity:
    Colin Firth's portrayal in the BBC adaptation is known for its subtle expressions and understated charisma, making him a captivating Darcy.
  • Passionate Vulnerability:
    Matthew Macfadyen's portrayal in the 2005 movie highlights a more emotional and vulnerable side to Darcy, appealing to viewers who appreciate a more accessible character.
  • "Dark and Distant Allure":
    Some viewers find the dark, distant, and witty aspects of Darcy's personality to be particularly attractive, drawing them to his mysterious side.
  • Intelligence and Wit:
    Darcy's intelligence, love of reading, and ability to engage in witty banter are also considered attractive qualities.
  • Evolution Through Love:
    Darcy's willingness to evolve and soften his edges through his love for Elizabeth is another reason for his enduring appeal.
  • "Noble Mien":
    Some argue that Darcy embodies a noble and distinguished air, which is also a desirable trait.

Ultimately, Mr. Darcy's complexity and the range of interpretations in different adaptations contribute to his enduring popularity as a romantic icon.


也许这篇文章其实应该叫“为什么我喜欢达西先生”,但我自信这些理由也许能引起其他女性的共鸣。
达西先生常常受到男性的调侃。他不过是某位女性幻想出来的“完美男神”,现实中根本没有这样的人。许多男人会说,女人们该清醒点,接受现实吧(诸如此类,不一而足)。的确,有些喜欢他的理由看起来似乎有些轻飘飘。比如说他长得帅?但他是小说人物啊,完全可以根据自己的喜好想象他多帅(而且书中确实说他英俊,可是书里的“坏男孩”威克汉却被称为更英俊)。你可以说他有钱、有教养,可这样很容易被人说是功利,仿佛你只希望男人们都在水洼边铺大衣让你走过去。
不,我想,喜欢达西先生,是有几个非常正当且有说服力的理由的,我会一一道来:

他不擅长与人交谈
我第一次读《傲慢与偏见》时,完全不知道它讲什么,也不知道剧情会如何发展,但让我第一次对达西产生共鸣的,是他在人际交往方面的笨拙。伊丽莎白在舞会上揶揄他太沉默,指责他傲慢,而他的回答是:“我确实没有些人那种本事,能轻松地与陌生人交谈。我无法揣摩他们谈话的语气,也不能表现出对他们关心的样子——我常常见到别人可以做到这些。”
哦,达西先生,原来你也是这样吗?一个被描写为英俊又富有的男人,居然在和陌生人交谈时也会无措?那我对自己这种毛病也稍感宽慰了。如果连你这样的人都不知道该说些什么,那像我这样普通又无趣的人,又怎么能强求自己应对自如呢?你不知道我有多少次站在人面前,脑子转得飞快,却仍说不出一句话。周围人似乎总能自如地闲聊,我却只能干巴巴地站着。
我也常担心自己给人不礼貌的印象,其实并非本意。希望我至少不像达西那样让人觉得“傲慢”。毕竟伊丽莎白初识达西时,身边的人几乎都对他印象不佳。
是的,简·奥斯汀在她的男主角身上赋予了我可以共情的特质,而这就是我愿意加入“傲慢与偏见”粉丝行列的原因之一。

他主动行动了
达西先生可不是那种整本小说九成时间都畏畏缩缩、不敢表达心意的男主角(很多言情小说都喜欢这种拖沓设定)。简·奥斯汀没有故弄玄虚,也没有用“差点开口却被打断”这种老掉牙的情节。他确确实实走进伊丽莎白住的地方,鼓起勇气向她求婚。(当然,在现代,如果一个刚认识不久的男人突然向你求婚,的确可能让人觉得怪异,但至少伊丽莎白很清楚他的心意。)
而且——请注意——他被毫不留情地拒绝了。但他还是选择了冒险,剧情也因此得以推进!
女性在向男性解释达西吸引力何在时,往往不会特别强调这一点,但我觉得这是一个非常关键的点。没有那种“暗恋多年、始终不说”的戏码。他会亲口告诉你他的感受。

他是有缺点的
这点可能是我作为写作者格外喜欢的一点——达西并非一位完美无缺的“圣人”,正是他的缺点构成了他与伊丽莎白之间最初的隔阂。写作课总说,太完美的主角读起来很无趣。可浪漫小说偏偏喜欢塑造那种“深情体贴又有八块腹肌”的男主角,即使女主再怎么羞辱或拒绝他,他也死心塌地守候着她——老套又脱离现实。
所以,说达西“不真实”的论调其实站不住脚。的确,一个英俊、品行端正、还非常有钱的男人,在现实中的确少见,但他身上的缺点却让他显得更真实。他不太会开玩笑——即使到结尾也还是不太能接受伊丽莎白的打趣。他确实骄傲,这一点毫无疑问。他在结尾前虽然收敛了些,但还是满满的自尊与自负。尤其在电影改编中(尤其是凯拉·奈特莉那版)这些地方被淡化了。但在小说里,他真的不觉得拆散简和彬格莱有什么错——因为他真的认为简配不上彬格莱。甚至在第一次求婚时,他还花了好一段篇幅说明自己是在“降格以求”,你说伊丽莎白能不拒绝吗?在写给伊丽莎白的信中,他仍坚称自己对彬格莱做得没错。到结尾时,他还是不太能完全接住伊丽莎白的调侃。
至少他是一以贯之的。他的“爱情”并没有让他一夜之间变成与原本性格完全相反的人——这在许多小说中可常见得很。

所以,这就是我的一点小见解。不知你还能补充哪些理由?
我觉得,喜欢达西,并不只是喜欢一个英俊、富有、理想化的“男性形象”,而是欣赏他作为一个有缺点、有成长、有情感挣扎和改变的真实人物。
Maybe this post should actually be called ‘why I like Mr. Darcy,’ but I flatter myself these reasons might be shared by other females.

Mr. Darcy gets a lot of flak from guys. He’s just some woman’s imagination of the perfect guy, no real guy acts like that, women in general should just grow up and settle for reality (etc., etc.) And, well, some reasons for liking him are a little flimsy. He’s good-looking? Well, he’s a literary character, so you get to imagine him as good-looking as you like (and while the novel does describe him as handsome, the bad boy of the book, Wickham, is called more handsome). You could point out he’s rich, or that he’s well-mannered, but run the risk of being called mercenary, or looking like you want every guy to throw his coat over a puddle for you. No, there’s several very good reasons for enjoying Mr. Darcy in Pride and Prejudice, and I shall list them below.

He’s Bad at Talking to People

When I first read Pride and Prejudice, I really had no idea what it was about or what exactly was going to happen, but this part is what first gave me some fellow feeling for Mr. Darcy in the novel. Elizabeth is teasing him for being so quiet at the dance she first met him at (she accuses him of pride, which was partly the reason.) And he replies, “I certainly have not the talent which some people possess, of conversing easily with those I have never seen before. I cannot catch their tone of conversation, or appear interested in their concerns, as I often see done.”

Oh, Mr. Darcy, you too? A man described as handsome and rich, who still fumbles around in conversations with strangers? Well, then, I feel a bit better at possessing this flaw myself. If you can’t think of anything to talk about, why should someone so much less interesting as myself, ever be good at it? You don’t know how many times I’ve stood across from someone for many long, awkward minutes, with my mind going a mile a minute and still not having a word to say. While everyone around me can strike up a conversation without any effort at all.

I’m afraid I come off rude sometimes too, without meaning to be. Hopefully I don’t come off as proud. That’s what everyone Elizabeth knows first thinks of Darcy.

Yes, Jane Austen gave me something to relate to in her hero, and this is one big reason I can get on board with the whole Pride and Prejudice fan bandwagon.

He Actually Makes a Move

Mr. Darcy does not wait around ninety percent of the book, too scared to find out what the heroine thinks of him (which too many romance novels do). Jane Austen is not fumbling around for some device to drag out her plot, and does not decide to make him get this close to saying something to Elizabeth, before being frustratingly interrupted. No, he actually gets up and walks over to where Elizabeth is staying, and asks her to marry him. (Okay, it’s be a bit strange if a guy who liked you just straight-up proposed to you nowadays, but at least Elizabeth isn’t in the dark about how he feels). And – take note of this, guys – he does get brutally shot down. But at least he took the risk. And the plot moves on!

When females try to explain to males what Mr. Darcy’s attraction is, they don’t often explain this, but I think it plays a role. None of this ‘secret admirer for years’ stuff. He’ll actually tell you to your face how he’s feeling.

He’s Flawed

This might be a point for the writer in me, but I love how Mr. Darcy is not a perfect paragon of virtue, and it is his very flaws that separate him from Elizabeth for most of the novel. They always tell writers that heroes that are too perfect are boring to read about. Yet, for some reason, romance novels still keep pulling out endlessly romantic and caring dudes with rippling abs. Even when the heroine gives the guy ample reason to throw in the towel! But no, this guy is sincere and loves the girl for who she is… blah, blah, blah.

Anyway, this point directly contradicts the charge that Mr. Darcy is “too unrealistic.” I’ll admit finding a good-looking, virtuous guy who also happens to be rich is stretching things a little far, but the fact he has flaws makes him more believable. He can’t quite take a joke, not even by the end of the novel. And he is proud. He tones it down a bit by the end, but he has pride in spades. This gets toned down a bit in the movie adaptions, I think (at least in the Keira Knightley one), but for a long time he was not ashamed at all for breaking up Jane and Bingley because he really thought Jane was beneath Bingley. He actually, while proposing to Elizabeth, spends a long chunk of time describing how he’s lowering himself to do so (you wonder why she shot him down, huh?) In his letter to her, he still insists he did right by Bingley. And by the end, he still can’t quite take all of Elizabeth’s teasing, as I mentioned before.

At least he’s consistent. “Love” doesn’t turn him into the opposite of everything he’d been throughout the book before – unfortunately, I’ve seen this happen in too many novels before too.

Anyway, there’s my two cents on that. Are there any more reasons you can add?
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来自国外版“知乎”网友的回答:傲慢与偏见里的达西

There are lots of reasons.



For one thing, he’s willing to work on his flaws.
When Elizabeth turns him down in disdain the first time, he actually takes the time to listen to her and work on becoming a better version of himself.



When Lydia is in trouble, he doesn’t hesitate to go and reduce the scandal surrounding her elopement.



When Elizabeth gives him a piece of her mind about how he supposedly wronged Mr. Wickham, he doesn’t shut down or explode: He writes her a letter explaining everything.



And, of course, he has ten thousand a year (equivalent to over a million in today’s money) and lives in this house, which doesn’t hurt:



Is Mr. Darcy perfect? Of course not.



But in our modern society of one-night stands and ghosting, his character is a breathe of fresh air that has bewitched women for over 200 years.
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是什么让达西先生成为最讨人喜欢的男人?

慈爱的哥哥:他对乔琪安娜小姐的照顾令人称赞。他既像哥哥,又带着父亲般的呵护,这份温柔与责任感令他与众不同。
真挚的爱人:他对伊丽莎白情根深种。当他注视她时,那眼神中透出的炽热;当他与她辩论时,那神采飞扬的眼光,都无不体现出他深沉的爱意。
仁善的主人:还记得伊丽莎白与嘉德纳夫妇拜访彭伯利庄园时,见到了达西家的管家雷诺兹太太吗?她这样评价达西:“我从四岁就认识他,他从未对我说过一句刻薄的话。”这句话足以说明达西是何等真正的绅士。
值得敬佩的朋友:彬格莱先生有这样一位挚友实属幸运,反之亦然。即使面对彬格莱姐妹的无聊话语,他也出于对朋友的情谊而耐心倾听,这份情义令人动容。

女性为何会欣赏达西?
我认为没有一个“普世标准”的女性答案,因为每位女性都不同。毕竟,有些女性性格我可能会认为是肤浅或功利的(尽管别人可能不这么认为——请不要被冒犯!),还有些女性并不真正致力于读书提升自我,或者她们读书的方式与目的未必令人敬佩。这些女性,也许不会理解,也不会喜欢达西;而达西,也未必会喜欢她们。

傲慢与偏见电视剧版达西:科林·费尔斯

傲慢与偏见电视剧版达西:科林·费尔斯

不过,奥斯汀笔下真正的达西,是一个:
  • 鼓励女性阅读和学习,并为此而欣赏她们的男人!即使在今天,这也不是人人能做到的。想象一下一个生活在1796至1817年之间的男人,竟然抱有这种观点——这不仅令人惊讶,简直堪称革命!(连威灵顿公爵听了都得在坟墓里跳一支苏格兰舞)
  • 鼓励女性有自己的见解、表达自我、进行辩论与探讨;
  • 欣赏机智和个性;
  • 他本身也是个有趣且爱玩的人(虽然比较内敛,不多言,不轻易袒露自己,只有在熟悉或舒适的场合才显露风趣;但他在内瑟菲尔如何巧妙地回怼卡罗琳、与伊丽莎白调情——太精彩了);
  • 花时间认真观察,分辨自己对一个女性的吸引力是肤浅的迷恋,还是更深层的情感;思考他们的关系是否能长久,包括双方性格、家庭与社交圈——毕竟恋爱不是孤岛,只有天真的成年人才会忽略外部因素;
  • 在被拒绝后不怀怨,反而写信道歉,并强调信件无意再求婚,而是解释;后来再次求婚时也说,“你只要一句话,我便永不再提”;
  • 忠诚——忠于朋友、亲人、爱人和他所认同的“良好原则”;
  • 诚实,讨厌伪装与操纵;
  • 他内向,使他看起来冷漠,实则不然。他的下人从未被他呵斥过,他对周围人真心关切,甚至乐于帮助贫苦者;
  • 他意识到自己在态度与礼节上有待改进后,便努力修正,尽管不改变本性,却甘愿去提升自己,因为他承认伊丽莎白说得大致没错;
  • 最终,他选择了因爱而婚。从字里行间也可读出他的浪漫与热情。

就算不喜欢内向型的人,也很难不欣赏达西这样的男人。
当然,他“英俊”的外表也不无帮助——不过,何为“英俊”?即便一个人不是传统意义上的帅气,只要有魅力,也会让人着迷;而有些被称为俊朗的男子,却未必能真正吸引人。



Characteristics which makes Mr. Darcy the most amiable man!

A caring brother: The way he treats Ms. Georgiana is commendable,a protective brother with fatherly affection make him stands apart!
A true lover: He was head over heels for Lizzie, the look in his eyes when he stares her, the shine when he argues with her shows the amount of love he has for her!

A kind Master: Remember when Lizzie went to Pemberley with Mr. and Mrs. Gardener, She met Mrs. Reynolds ( Darcy's housekeeper) the way she describes her master “I have never had a cross word from him in my life, and I have known him since I was four” it shows what a true gentleman man Mr. Darcy is!

Most admirable friend: Mr. Bingley was lucky to have a friend like him and vice versa. He used to listen all the non sense of Ms. Bingley and Mrs. Hurst just for the sake of his bond he shares with Mr. Bingley!

I don’t think that we can come up with a universal female answer to that, because we are all different. Also, because women with an attitude I might consider shallow or materialistic (others might not - please don’t be offended!), and/or women who do not improve their minds by extensive reading (or simply do not get what they strive to read), and/or women with many other characteristics I personally don’t like (and Darcy would not like either) do exist.

Anyway, Mr. Darcy, the real Mr. Darcy by Austen, is a man who:

  • encourages women to read and study and admires them for that! This is not something you can take for granted today… now, imagine a man thinking this somewhere between, say, 1796 and 1817… that’s not only amazing, but also revolutionary! (Wellington just danced a reel in his grave due to my word choice)
  • encourages women to have an opinion, to express it, to discuss and argue! See above;
  • appreciates wit and personality;
  • is, actually, witty and playful in his own way (more reserved, not too expansive, not too rambling; only when he is at ease or acquainted with his interlocutor, but the way he shuts down Caroline and flirts with Lizzy at Netherfield is amazing, come on!)
  • takes the time to observe both his physical and temperamental attraction to a woman, sees if they are only what we call a crush or not, ponders if the relationship can survive or not (considering their nature and… yes, even their families and friends, because ignoring them is something only childish adults do. A couple is not alone!), and finally recognises he “ardently admires and loves” the woman;
  • does not resent the woman for her rejection; in fact, apologises for writing a letter, explains the letter has nothing to do with proposing or courting, and when he proposes again because he thinks there are positive signals he say that if she still does not want him “one word […] will silence me forever”;
  • He is loyal: to his friends, to his sister, to Lizzy, to what he thinks are “good principles”;
  • He is honest and abhors disguise, manipulation and all the like;
  • His introverted nature makes him appear more gruff than he really is; in fact, his housekeepers and his staff never had cross words from him, he actually cares for people around him, and even helps the poor;
  • Upon understanding that he should really improve and soften some of his manners, attitudes and so on (without trying to change his nature), he does that, because he recognises his mistakes and acknowledges Lizzy was mostly correct;
  • after all, he chooses to marry for love, and between the lines you can see he is romantic and passionate.

I would say it’s plenty to at least make women appreciate you, even if they are not into introverts! The fact that he is “handsome” definitely helps too, but what is “handsome”? Even a non-canonically handsome man can be very attractive, whereas there are classically handsome men who lack charme or simply do not attract women.
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